When Stability Feels Like a Moving Target: A Founder's Reflection on Alignment and Autonomy

There’s a strange pressure that comes with being both a dreamer and a provider.

You want to build something meaningful — something that outlasts you — but you’re constantly reminded of the “practical” things you should be doing instead.

Lately, I’ve been sitting in that space — the in-between of ambition and responsibility.

The version of me that built Chairside Coach did so because she was tired of surviving on borrowed vision. She wanted to help others bridge the gap between education and purpose — but lately, she’s had to revisit her own.

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Because what happens when the people around you don’t see the same future you do? What happens when your stability depends on someone else’s comfort zone?

That’s when “alignment” stops being an abstract idea — and becomes an act of courage.

It’s easy to preach boundaries and balance; it’s harder to practice them when the world feels like it’s asking you to choose between passion and practicality.

But the truth is — we can’t build something transformative if we keep rearranging our dreams around other people’s plans.

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Sometimes leadership looks like stepping back to recalibrate.

Sometimes it looks like letting go of control and admitting, “This isn’t working anymore.”

And sometimes, it looks like staying the course — even when no one else gets it.

If you’re in that space too — questioning, readjusting, trying to protect your peace while building your purpose — know that you’re not alone.

Because the bridge between expectation and reality isn’t built overnight — it’s built with grace, one honest moment at a time.